Welcome!This is YOUR self-esteem building website. It has been created to give you a better understanding of who you are, what the reasons are behind your conscious and unconscious activity and how your self talk and internal attitudes affect both your esteem and your confidence on a daily basis.
Your self-esteem is one of the hardest things to build and one of the easiest to lose. It can be damaged by the negativity towards you by people you allow in your lives; by measuring yourselves against the media portrayal of what it means to be beautiful or desirable (where most of you/us will always come up short); and by your own inner voice if you allow it to pour negative thoughts and observations about yourselves into your subconscious.
It can be “serious fun”. Serious because it is work - you have to motivate yourself to set goals and meet them in order to guide your life in an upward direction.
And fun, because you can come to realize that there is a smile in every moment, that spontaneity is a good thing, and that every day can hold a new surprise when you let go of self doubt and depression and start living a life of self empowerment.
This website is designed to help you discover the essence and importance of your own innate physical, mental and spiritual capacity to fulfill your own desires, and your ability to consciously change your attitudes and circumstances so you can live the harmonious, peaceful and joyous life that you deserve.
Here you will find information on how to recognize when you have a low opinion of yourself, how to trade it in for high self-esteem, and plenty of tips and techniques to help you along the journey. People with low opinion of themselves sometimes just need the initial motivation to get started; my goal is to give you as much help as you need, and to guide you every step of the way.
You can’t underestimate the importance of building your self-esteem.
It can totally change the way you see the world, your thoughts and actions, and how you see and value yourself. If this is something that affects your confidence, it can be a hard obstacle reaching your goals and dreams.
Having a healthy self-esteem can be the difference between having success or being a failure, because it gives you the right attitude at school or work. If you have a low self-esteem, it’s more possible that you’re going to believe others when they say to you that you can’t achieve something. Your motivation will just go down! If you work in make your confidence in yourself stronger, it’s going to be so much easier achieve your dreams, because you’re going to actually believe that you can make it.
Having self-confidence is extremely important for people’s life, and yet so many people have troubles building it. You have to get out of that vicious circle! If you start to think positive, great things start to happen, so you’ll continue thinking positive, and without noticing it, you’ll be in a new and better circle that will lead you to success and happiness!
This way you see yourself can also affect your social relationships. After all, not so many people will like to work or hang out with someone that’s always nervous or acts like everything’s going to go wrong. But if you have your head high, letting them know that you’re confident in your words and what you’re saying, I assure that they are going to listen to you!
Even when you have to find that spark of confidence inside of you, you definitely can build and grow your self-esteem. It’s something that you can work in. Your behavior is the key. Your body language, what you say, how you speak, every little detail can help.
There’s no quick-fix or magic solution.
You have to try hard, but it be so well-worth it! You have to focus and have the determination to get things right. The best part? While you’re building your trust and self-esteem, you’ll be also building success around you, because after all, the real confidence will come with your achievements and goals. Be committed with your responsibility in changing your life for good. Start by trusting yourself with this little job and you’ll see that every step will be easier each time.
Take the lead!
Make the choice. You can have incredible success if you simply choose to! Wake up every morning and choose one thing to succeed at - it's OK to start small and make small goals.
Once you succeed at them you will gain the self confidence to try harder things - new things - things you never even dreamed you could succeed at! Realistic goal setting (and achieving) is one of the surest paths to ongoing success. Start small and build tall, until you look at a problem and see potential success instead of failure, a goal to be reached instead of an insurmountable obstacle!
Self Improvement Tips And Techniques
Self hypnosis and meditation
Self hypnosis and meditation is very underrated as a tool to redirect the subconscious, calm a troubled mind and prepare you to meet each day with serenity.
Get rid of negative 'self talk', and replace it with encouragement and uplifting feedback from your 'inner voice'. Remind yourself daily of your own self worth, and teach yourself how to fall into an instant state of composed relaxation in even stressful situations.
Self hypnosis and mind mastery can be two of the most powerful tools you will ever find to help you take control of your life and happiness.
You will also find information here about self hypnosis and meditation techniques that can help you alter your negative thought patterns and guide your mindset into paths of serene positivity and an understanding of your own self worth.
Is your cup half empty or half full? Does the voice inside you say nice things, or mean ones? A joyful, fulfilled existence is only possible if your 'inner you' is positive. That's why positive thinking, personal mantras and a dedication to learning to love yourself are so important.
Your cup doesn't have to be full of material things to be overflowing. Find the good in everything - your life, your looks, your dreams, your goals - and focus on how to use those things to bring you even more happiness. Soon you'll see a change in your overall world view!
Use the power of inspirational and motivational quotes and sayings when you feel lost or discouraged. Words have the ability to initiate change and re-energize your mind and spirit. We all have moments in our life when things start falling apart. Change the direction of your mind with motivational quotes.
Positive thinking
How does it all work? Mind power.
It can be much more effective and life changing than you might realize.
Mind power is what can lift us out of the beliefs we have about ourselves that bring us down. The power of your mind is amazingly strong. It can open doors people tell us are closed, tap into strengths we didn't know we had, and change our lives and the lives of those around us.
People who were supposed to be crippled for life have learned to walk again; cancer patients have survived and lived for decades past doctors’ expectations - if these things can happen, certainly your will can be strong enough to change your negative mindset and open the door to a new, positive way of life.
Don’t dismiss mind power until you have a chance to experience how you can effectively alter your life and your attitudes using this powerful tool.
Never underestimate the power of your mind to effect change!
The importance of team building
Part of having a fulfilling and fun life is learning to interact with other people. Team building exercises can open your mind and heart, making you look at yourself differently and building your self-esteem through helping others succeed and being part of something.
When you are part of a team, you are important; because a team’s success depends on the participation of everyone, they really can’t do it without you! What a great self-esteem booster!
Using this website to build your self-esteem and self confidence is the first step.
Once you have come to realize what a great and capable person you can be, you will have the courage to go out and apply what you have learned about yourself in real world situations.
You will be able to believe in yourself, and interact with other people from a place of confidence and assurance that you can succeed.
Raising your self-esteem and self confidence
Raising your self-esteem is about transforming your life from depression, fear and uncertainty to happiness, confidence and joy!
Feeling good about yourself expands to form a solid foundation for your actions, your thought patterns, your speech, your posture, your attitude with which you face the challenges of the world around you, and your ability to make positive decisions which will be beneficial for you in the future.
You can raise your self-esteem with mind changing exercises and determination to turn that inner voice to a positive channel. You can grow self confidence by setting and achieving goals, and facing your fears.
Depression will melt away, to be replaced with deep contentment and happiness as you learn to be kind to yourself and expect more of yourself. This is the cornerstone of a strong, joyful, mentally and emotionally healthy life. Choose today to start growing your self-esteem! All it takes is one simple decision today - to get started working on you - and the rest will follow.
Building your self-esteem and self confidence is the single most important part of your entire well-being.
What will you find here?
• You will find a friend here
• You will have fun! :):)
• You will find the support, tips and techniques to achieve your goals and to get motivated even if you feel sad, not inspired or insecure.
• Free downloads. You’ll have access to free downloads to help you on your journey.
• The bar on the left will lead you to dozens of useful articles, affirmations, exercises, hypnosis downloads about how to overcome the obstacles in your life, and information on how to use your internal power to succeed and how to build a rock solid foundation for your self-esteem.
• Free monthly newsletter to give you ideas and methods to get rid of shyness, your fears and to help you establish a more confident person you have always wanted to be.
• You will find books and videos about self improvement and personal development to give inspiration, plan and program to overcome your difficulties especially when it comes to building your self-esteem and confidence.
Smile! Your journey to success and a joyful life starts here.
Enjoy the journey my friend.
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